TY - ADVS AU - Gruenfeld, Deborah TI - Acting with power PY - 2012/// CY - Mill Valey, CA PB - Kantola Productions KW - Influence KW - sears KW - Negotiation N2 - How you speak has far greater impact than what you actually say. The body language of power, and how to use it. Why it's risky to act more important than you are. Working well with others is critical to professional success, yet many people struggle with "authority issues" that can block their progress. Professor Gruenfeld combines research on the psychology of power with the acting skills of the theater to illustrate how our nonverbal behavior affects how we are perceived in a hierarchy—far more than the words or arguments we use. In fact, she notes, our words account for only 7% of our argument's impact. The good news is that we can control how we are perceived by using our body language to influence others. From how we hold ourselves to how we speak, Dr. Gruenfeld explores the ways to "play high" when we want to be authoritative, and "play low" when it's more advantageous to be approachable. In the end, she notes, we're judged not on the quality of our argument, but on how we act and how we make others feel ER -